Collective Memoirs: The Importance of Remembering Together

Liane Buck
iSpirit Stories
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2 min readJul 22, 2022

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What is a Collective Memoir?

It is a compilation of moments, stories, and events of a lifetime to be consulted repeatedly by the person with Alzheimer’s or other dementia and their family members.

The book can be adapted over time and is an activity that has all the ingredients to be extremely rewarding for the person with dementia.

Why Should you build a Collective memoir?

Although the memory of recent events (short-term memory) can be difficult, many people with dementia can easily recall past events (long-term memory).

A memoir rests on long-term memory, emphasizing what the person can remember.

A Collective memoir is a precious tool for maintaining general well-being, promotes communication, and gives confidence and stability.

It can be used to tell stories and interact with grandchildren. In addition, it can be a valuable tool for the clinical team when a change of contexts, such as hospitalization or part of the therapeutic intervention plan.

The book should always be Independently built on its own. However, the level of involvement of the person with dementia in the memoir’s construction should not be underestimated.

Finding time to build the book together as a family is essential. This activity can be incredibly stimulating and meaningful.

How to build a Collective Of “Memories” book?

There is no standard format for the construction of these books.

Stories become exciting when illustrated with copies of photographs and documents such as maps, certificates, postcards, tickets to significant events, and more. If there is an object of great significance to the person, for example, a watch, you can photograph it and insert that image in the book.

Always use the person’s words to caption a photograph or another image.

Use practical tips to help you build a Book of Collective Memories or Memoir.

1. Layout a timeline to help you organize information.

2. Some common themes are birthplace, stories of parents and siblings, childhood memories, school, first job, marriage, and children’s birth.

3. It can include other significant and striking moments, such as a war period. Explore additional topics of interest such as the places where you lived or visited, styles of clothing or hairstyles, favorite food, and hobbies, among many others.

4. Always choose with the person (or family members) the material to include in the memoir: copy photographs, maps, documents, spoken memories, and whatever creativity can remember.

5. Caption visual information with short words and phrases.

6. Use a clear font, a minimum size of 14, and pay attention to backgrounds that should be simple to not cause visual distractions.

7. Finally, don’t put too much information per page. Keep it simple. Keep it clean.

We can help you develop a collective memoir project, talk to us.

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Liane Buck
iSpirit Stories

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